“What do you do on your days off?”
I can’t think of anything on the spur of the moment, so I often answer, “I spend time at home.”
From an outsider’s perspective, I might be a person leading a boring life.
Yes, I spend a lot of time at home, but I have many things I want to do, and I’m putting them into action little by little.
But since I do that too infrequently, it’s safe to say that what I usually do is spending time at home.
What I want to do is, for example, to make my room the best place to relax, to cook elaborate dishes using unusual ingredients, eating out at a nice restaurant, and going to see a beautiful view.
There are many other things I want to do. My bucket list is so long that it takes many scrolls.
But more than that, I love getting plenty of sleep and spending time at home, and it’s an essential part of my life.
Only after I’ve rested to the fullest in that way can I begin to work on one of the things on my bucket list.
I can only do it at such a snail’s pace. Let’s look at the good side of things and leave it as “The longer the enjoyment is present, the better.”
I’ve never done it because I can’t, but if I lived my life consuming one bucket list item after another, I’d burn out early.
So, I should spend time at home first and foremost, and then do one thing at a time when I’m feeling better and feel like doing something out of the ordinary.
I believe that if I’m not feel good mentally and physically, I won’t be able to enjoy anything I do from the bottom of my heart.
I know some people live their lives moving first and foremost to what they want to do and what they enjoy doing, but I live my life first and foremost to fully recharge myself.